This week, we began a series on relationships, typical for February - I love it! =) - and the passage being discussed was 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 - -
"14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? WHat does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?"
The talk continued and Tim spoke on the four things that are ensured in a Christ-based relationship that are absent in one with an unbeliever.
1) It ensures a common treasure in life. We were given the gift (treasure) of the Holy Spirit as believers, and that gives us a common denominator with other believers - it's something we automatically have in common with the other person. You're both interested in the same thing - a relationship with the One True God. Can you imagine not praying with your spouse? Can you imagine investing your life in a relationship that ends on earth? Can you imagine even THINKING that your spouse would not be with you in heaven? Why would we choose that?!
2) It ensures a common blueprint for marriage. If you're a believer, God's word provides the perfect blueprint for marriage - it discusses love, romance, sex, finance, children, everything!
3) It ensures a common power in times of crisis. As believers, we know that Christ provides comfort, encouragement, knowledge, and has a plan for us. Non-believers run to other aspects of life to find comfort in times of trouble. You NEED to be in a relationship with someone who seeks the same comfort you do!
4) It ensures that you share the common values for your family. Imagine not being able to pray at the dinner table with your children because mommy/daddy doesn't believe in Jesus. Try thinking about your children splitting time between church and time at home with nonbeliever mom/dad.
Tim finished with Galatians 6:7 - - "7 Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked: A man reaps what he sows."
If we're sowing relationships based on anything other than Christ, we are no doubt going to reap the consequences of that decision. We need to quit lowering our standards and remember that God has our best interests at heart! He is not being harsh, he is being gracious!
I just left Tuesday night so excited for the man that God has planned for me! I can't wait to see what face will be waiting for me at the end of the aisle!
Hope this gives you the same hope and smile it gave me =)
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